Approaching a colleague who may be struggling can feel daunting, but small, respectful gestures can make a big difference. We do this every day with patients and it’s important we do it with each other as well. Here are some ways you can offer support in a thoughtful, respectful way.
Plan ahead. Choose a private, calm time and place. You can begin the conversation by asking:
- "Hey, do you have time for a quick chat after work?"
- "Want to grab a coffee and catch up?"
Remember to lead with care, not concern and use open-ended questions, like:
Consider these strategies when engaging in the conversation:
- Listen actively: be present without rushing to fix, judge, advise or offer solutions.
- Encourage help-seeking: remind them they deserve care too, with their own GP or psychologist.
- Normalise support: share a resource or experience that helped you or someone you know.